Rules of Marriage
Most traditional societies observe certain rules and conventions while performing marriages. This is not so in modern western societies where young men and women choose their life partners as per their choice. Endogamy and exogamy are the two main rules that regulate marital choice.
It is a rule of marriage in which the life-partners are to be selected within the group, such as caste, class, ethnicity, place of habitation etc. We have caste endogamy, class endogamy, sub caste endogamy, race endogamy and tribal endogamy etc. In caste endogamy marriage has to take place within the caste. Brahmin has to marry a Brahmin. In sub caste endogamy it is limited to the sub caste groups. This practice is in vogue in South India.
It is a rule of marriage in which an individual has to marry outside his own group. It strictly prohibits marrying within the group. The so-called blood relatives shall neither have marital connections nor sexual contacts among themselves. This practice is prevalent in North India.
Forms of exogamy:
Gotra Exogamy: The Hindu practice of one marrying outside one’s own gotra.
Pravara Exogamy: Those who belong to the same pravara cannot marry among themselves.
Village Exogamy: Many Indian tribes like Naga,Garo,Munda etc have the practice of marrying outside their village.
Pinda Exogamy: Those who belong to the same panda or sapinda (common parentage) cannot marry within themselves.
Isogamy: It is the marriage between two equals (status)
Anisogamy: It is an asymmetric marriage alliance between two individuals belonging to different social statuses. It is of two forms – Hypergamy and Hypogamy.
Hypergamy: It is the marriage of a woman with a man of higher Varna or superior caste or family.
Hypogamy: It is the marriage of high caste man with a low caste woman.
Orthogamy: It is the marriage between selected groups.
Cerogamy: It is two or more men get married to two or more women.
Anuloma marriage: It is a marriage under which a man can marry from his own caste or from those below, but a woman can marry only in her caste or above.
Pratiloma marriage: It is the ban on a marriage of a woman to a man from a lower caste.